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Post Promotion Inadequacy Blues

5/22/2016

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Over the last two weeks we have been actively promoting various level students...

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From our newest white belt getting her half yellow belt all the way to our Junior Brown belts, testing has been on everyone’s brain.  While we actively study it also makes you think of your past tests in terms of whether they were good or bad.
​I’m a student that suffers from a sense of inadequacy after every test.  I find myself questioning if I really did study hard enough, if I did perform my very best and if I deserve my new rank.  To some reflective students this thought process can either make or break you after a test.  For those who don’t understand why some would feel unworthy after going through such rigorous testing, there is an explanation.  

​The Peter’s Principle.

​The Peter’s Principle is usually applied in business management, not martial arts promotions but they follow the same line of thinking.  The Peter’s Principle is defined as the observation that in an organizational hierarchy, every employee will rise or get promoted to his or her level of incompetence. 
Incompetence is a harsh word but the definition simply means that you are promoted based on your past experience.  ​The only down fall to the Peter’s Principle is that at some point the individual will in theory fail and not promote past a certain job because it’s now too challenging for them.  
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​The solution to the principle is continued education.  When we are training and practicing for a promotion, our instructors are looking at our new material but even more so our old material that we have more experience with.  It’s after the promotion, when we begin new training that we discover a new level of incompetence.  It’s in this moment that some students begin feel inadequate of their new rank.

​I remember distinctly thinking during my last test, “If my Sifu passes me he’s probably blind.”

​Definitely an odd thought to be having when under stress.  It’s a sign of a student with introspection which if channeled correctly will continuously push the student to better themselves. A vague definition of introspection in psychology terms is the informal examination of our own internal thoughts and feelings, especially after an event.  Without proper guidance an introspective student can become self-doubting and eventually quit martial arts all together.  

There are a few things that can help an introspective student regain their confidence after a test.

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Ok maybe not that confident.

​During my last test my instructor had the other higher ranking students, who were helping with the testing, teach me a new technique for my new belt.  It minimized that “incompetent feeling” by transitioning me from the repetitive studying student to the novel student.  It was a small shot of confidence knowing I had just promoted to green belt and already had a brown belt technique. 
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Yes that's me at the end of my test getting my new technique,
"Escape from Death"

​Any inadequacy feelings after a test rarely have anything to do with the actual test, it lies primarily in the student’s confidence.  Another way to boost a student’s confidence is putting them in the shoes of instructor.  Have them teach a lower ranking student, give them a chance to demonstrate their knowledge and to be a leader.  It helps give a sense of why we were promoted in the first place.

As always, any open dialog is always the best.  It’s taken many discussions with my instructor to clear my head of any self-doubts.  Constant reminders to be the student and let him be the teacher, constant reminders that perfection is an impossible goal and constant reminders to be my own best friend not my own worst enemy.  One of the reason’s we practice martial arts is to build confidence.  We need to allow a promotion to do just that—build our confidence.

Pat yourself on the back, you deserve that new belt.

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1 Comment
J. R. Diaz
5/25/2016 04:51:04 pm

Ah Testing! Testing for a new belt can do many things to many people. It can stress one out and it can boost ones ego. I have known many of student's who have felt and have walked ur walk. I have seen them succeed with flying colors and I have seen them struggle as if it were the end of the world. Regardless, it's one journey that if they continue on their path will surely bring excellent results and in the end will help them reach the ultimate goal. In some cases for many it's the next belt and in others the Black Belt and nothing less is satisfactory. Whatever, the case the self doubt is part of being real to oneself. I for one can appreciate that type of student because there is always that hunger to be better without me having to push or having to try to encourage them mentally. Take it from me, as an instructor of thousands of student's In my 40 years of Kenpo my goal was to succeed and yet I have tasted failing twice as a matter of fact can do wonders in one's mind. Yet, I stuck with it because it was a lifetime journey for me but let me assure you failing has a bitter taste to it.

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    Jesalyn Mae Harper

    Hello my name is Jesalyn.  I'm a divorced single mom and a karate addict...
    I am currently a 1st Brown belt in American Kenpo and a Junior Instructor at Double Dragon Kenpo Karate under JR Diaz, I am part of the Parker/Planas Lineage and study Karbaroan Eskrima with JR Diaz, under Guro Ed Planas

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