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Over Sexualization in Martial Arts

11/6/2017

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My dojo hosts many seminars...

Yet I distinctly remember one of my first...

I showed up and as I joined the mat one of my fellow peers made the comment,
“Wow you look pretty today.”  

I was slightly taken aback. It wasn’t a compliment I was use to receiving on the mat.  When I asked him what brought that about, he said,

“You actually have makeup on.”

This threw me for an even bigger loop.  Attractive was never an adjective I thought to describe myself as on the mat.  During training I would use adjective such as confident, strong, athletic, and maybe even badass…
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It was a few months later, I was told by a potential sponsor who wanted me to test their gear out, said that they were withdrawing their offer because my photos on my social media were...

not “hot” enough.

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Photo credit: BJJEE at bjjee.com


​I was blindsided, confused and I’ll admit it hurt a little.  
​I had originally thought I was suppose to test the Gi’s and promote them in a business like manner.  The truth of the matter was this company didn’t want me promoting their merchandize with my talent and reputation.  They wanted me to promote them with one of the oldest marketing tactics, based on the philosophy that sex sells.

Regardless of this marketing scheme that has been around for hundreds, if not thousands of years; our society has become more progressive, reforming their ideology on feminine beauty to include qualities such as confidence, strength and athleticism.  With this psyche, it’s natural that female martial artists could become sensuous and even provocative.  But at what point of time do we cross the line and focus not on a martial artists capabilities but rather their appearance?
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At what point of time do we as a society begin to sexualize martial artists?
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Leeann Morris is the co-owner and operates/trains at World Class Martial Arts just outside of Philadelphia, PA.  She currently holds the rank of 4th Degree Black Belt Master Instructor in Tang Soo Do and currently holds the rank of Purple Belt in Brazilian Jiu Jitsu.  Her husband and Professor is Aaron Morris, a 1st Degree Black Belt under 8x World Champion and IBJJF Hall of Fame member, Master Robson Moura.
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Mrs. Morris is also the owner of “Josei Heishi.”  ​

Over the years Mrs. Morris has seen a growing support for females in the Jiu Jitsu community.  However, she still feels like more should be done.  She wanted to make a difference rather than wish for one.  Josei Heishi is Japanese for “Female Soldiers” and their mission is to bring recognition to female practitioners in the Jiu Jitsu community.  Mrs. Morris explains, “We want to give back to all the female athletes and practitioners in the BJJ community.”
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Jiu Jitsu, particularly Brazilian Jiu Jitsu, has been on the front line in the controversy over equal pay and over sexualization of female practitioners.  Organizations such as Josei Heishi and “Equal Pay For BJJ” are professional organizations focused on bridging the gap between female and male practitioners.
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With growing attendance of female BJJ practitioners, companies have jumped on featuring them in advertisements… ​

However, the women featured in the advertisements not only inaccurately portray women training in Jiu Jitsu but at times even cross the line of being blatantly sexualized.
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Because all women in Martial Arts look like this when training.

Some claim, that this type of attention is helping promote the art.  
Mrs. Morris disagrees,
​“I don’t agree, but I know it is something that happens.  Anyone who knows about the sport should careless about how you look and be more concerned about what you train and fight like.”

​The blooming talent that many female practitioners possess is becoming veiled by the alluring contributes of their training.  Negatively portrayed practitioners in any martial arts can have negative effects not only on the system but also on its current practitioners.

​While many practitioners such as Mrs. Morris might feel that martial arts is for
​ “women of all walks of life”.
 A negative portrayal could affect a student thinking of signing up for classes or creating an unrealistic aspiration for current students.
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Some males might not understand or comprehend the issue of oversexualization of their fellow female peers.  ​

Mrs Morris explains,
​“What if it was their daughters or wives being sexualized?  The men have to put themselves in that scenario to know how they would truly feel in regards to a situation like this.”
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Mrs. Morris points out that RAINN (the nation's largest anti-sexual violence organization) shows 1 in every 6 American women has been a victim of an attempted or completed rape in her lifetime.  With statistics like this, women need self defense training more than ever.
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Organizations such as Josei Heishi are encouraging female practitioners to support one another to create an empowering environment. ​
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Group photo of the Josei Heishi Ambassadors.

Mrs. Morris insists,
​“If women want to see a change, they have to be the change.”
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While we are fixated on our appearance in the mirrors maybe our peers are not so concerned about us, but rather with their own study?

To help battle the epidemic of over sexualization, Mrs. Morris encourages practitioners to stand up for who we truly are.  
She asserts,
​ “If you want to be seen as an independent, strong woman sometimes that means messy hair and no make up.  Don’t sell yourself out and be who others want you to be just to get ‘recognized’.”
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As a female I do take pride in how I look and on occasion I might actually brush my hair, but when I’m training the last thing on my mind is if I’m ready to walk the runway.  There really is no point to doing makeup if I’m going to sweat it off.  There’s no point in curling and styling my hair if it’s going to get pulled loose or plastered to my forehead.  A female’s appearance during training is no different than in a life threatening situation… ​

Who cares what you look like as long as you are surviving.

 
Always show your talents and strengths.  Never down trod your capabilities and always remember once it’s out there, you can’t take it back.

And always remember... 


Anyone can take a Gi off but very few will ever put it on.

Josei Heishi Website
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Stephen Thompson & Carlos Condit Q&A with Kenpo Girl at UFC Seminar

5/15/2016

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​My parents enrolled me in a martial arts after school program when I was young ...

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They felt it was important for any woman to know how to defend herself.  It’s a belief I have carried into adulthood.  It was in my training that I learned techniques to escape basic attacks: punches, grabs, kicks ect.  I was very active with my dojo at the time but I never had the urge or desire to do anything competitive with it.  To be honest I never even sparred until my return to the mat as an adult.

Needless to say my experience with competitive martial arts is limited.  I’ve never paid to watch any fights, usually stumbling upon results or highlights on my Facebook feed, and discussing them with whoever brings it up around the Dojo water cooler. It’s not that I am against competitive fighting—I have just always felt knowing who the top ranking fighters are in UFC wouldn’t save my ass in a street fight.
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When I was asked to help promote/attend the grand opening of the UFC GYM in Northridge, CA and the Paradise Warriors Retreat UFC Seminar, I was surprised.  I didn’t know what to expect and I didn’t know what I would walk away with.  That’s even if I could walk away afterwards.
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After I consulted with a good friend of mine we decided to go just as spectators, the intent being to check out the UFC GYM (since it feels like they’re popping up everywhere) and secondly to meet and talk to some of the UFC fighters teaching at the seminar.


​When I and Ms. Z arrived at the gym we were pleasantly surprised to find that UFC GYMs are like martial arts versions of Chucky Cheese.  It was clear that this place was well stocked for any form of fitness training but was also equipped with a mat and their own cage.  
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Yes that's me playing hide and seek.

When we checked in for the seminar and looked over the schedule it screamed, “MMA FIGHTER IN ONE DAY!”  We had striking class with Stephen Thompson, BJJ Submission and attack from the Guard training with Arnoldo Maidana, Muay Thai & using elbows/knees to finish a fight by Carlos Condit and finishing the day off with finishing your opponent with strikes against the cage by Alan Jouban.
It sounded ruthless and I had been told the classes were for any age or level but I was skeptical.
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  1. Push drags: they never officially called it this but that’s what it was, applied to make your attack less readable.
  2.  Heal-Toe alignment: A proper stance was brought up by Ray Thompson about measuring your stance with what we call heal-toe alignment.
  3. Power principles: using body mass was brought up to add power to a strike.  It all refers back to our power principles of backup mass, torque and marriage of gravity.

I was proven wrong by the first class.  The striking class with Stephen “Wonderboy” Thompson and his dad/coach Ray Thompson was a pleasant surprise.  Here where two clearly experience instructors not only providing realistic drills but discussing the technique and theory behind each drill that was obviously Kempo based (and yes some of the students were kids and women).
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It was also an eye opener.  As I watched it became clear that very few students had any martial arts basis to go off of.  Some of the students didn’t even know what a proper fighting stance was.  The Thompson’s were introducing them to literally basics and principles such as...

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I could identify these basics because I train with them every day, but to the inexperienced martial artists they viewed it as a novelty.  I felt there was an important lesson for fighters whose training method is to pump iron and hit bags as hard as you can all day… 
There is technique in MMA.  It comes from the basis of whatever system you choose to start with.  You have to learn the basics and hone your technique otherwise you’re just another bozo jumping around in gym shorts.
After class I got a chance to talk to Stephen.  
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A funny history lesson: My Grandmaster Sifu Ed Parker Sr. was Elvis’s instructor and it was Elvis’s involvement in martial arts that inspired Ray Thompson to start martial arts. 

I have heard about the NFL lawsuits concerning concussions damaging the player’s brains.  You are not just getting slapped in the head during an MMA fight and there’s a very great possibility you’re going to get knocked out.  So I had to ask, “With the NFL in the middle of a lawsuit concerning concussions, are you concerned about any lasting damage from your fights?”

Stephen replied, “No, because of the way I move I don’t worry about it.  I see these guys, you can tell (they’re effected) by the way they talk but they get that way in the gym.  You have to train smart.  When we spar we work light, we work the body not the head.  You just have to train smart.”
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Training smart was something he had brought up in the class repeatedly even discussing his former injuries and how he listens to his body to determine work outs at times.  
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On top of his training for MMA, Stephen and his dad run a Martial Arts School called Upstate Karate.  Stephen is the head kid’s instructor.  I hadn’t envisioned an MMA fighter as being a kid’s instructor.  I’m an instructor at Double Dragon and know what kids gain from learning martial arts, but a part of me wanted to know if he had the same philosophy or if it would be different because of the competitive edge…  So I asked, “Some people believe that UFC and martial art are promoting violence in children.  What’s your response to that idea?”

Stephen didn’t even hesitate, explaining the importance of learning to defend yourself regardless of age and that it helps teach modesty and respect.  He also brought up bullying, that learning to defend yourself will deter bullies.
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Pretty much what all proper martial artist instructors have been saying since the beginning of time that no one wants to listen too.  Now at Upstate Karate they teach various styles of martial arts.  I have been somewhat confused about this in the past and I had read articles and rants online about learning too many systems and never mastering one.  “Some people feel that by doing MMA you aren’t mastering a system.  Your response?”

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I have to admit I was nervous about asking this question.  The last thing I wanted to do was piss this guy off but he was cool about it, “I have students that do karate, soccer, basketball…  They are good at them but they won’t be great because they’re not focusing on one.  It’s best to start (martial arts) at a young age, in one style and let it grow.”
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I can relate as an instructor.  The countless times a student missed class for a week because of a track tournament or even a fatigued student because of back to back practices; at times the parents seeming to be more concerned with the quantity instead of quality of sport activities.  I had a wonderful time talking to Stephen.  He appeared to be a genuine guy that enjoys not only doing martial arts but teaching it, even taking time during the seminar to help the younger kids in the class.  The complete opposite of what I expected.

We later watched the class by Carlos Condit ...

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​This ended up being pretty much a drill class.  Carlos introduced incorporating elbows into blast double take downs and double under clutches.  This was interesting to me because I had never heard of such things but as I watched the students you could tell that because they lacked the power principles most would have to try hard to take someone down or get pulverized in the process.  The main lesson I walked away with from Carlos was a comment he made that indirectly connected back to Stephen’s interview...

“The more wars (sparring) you have here (gym), the less you have out there.”

Carlos has a son and after class I asked him if they did martial arts together?
Carlos responded, “Yes my son’s been doing Jujitsu a few years.  He’s 6.  I don’t train him, I just play and wrestle around, let it be fun.”

There are many different systems of martial arts and at times I think parents get confused on what is what and which they should enroll their child in.  So I asked him for advice he would give parents thinking of enrolling in martial arts.

Carlos believes and advises, “Take out the competitive aspect and let them train and have fun.  When they have fun it allows them to make mistakes and grow.”
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I think in turn MMA has the potential to be no different from a singular martial art.  It really just depends on where you train and who you train with.  Unfortunately with the popularity growth of UFC I believe we will see more MMA versions on McDojos popping up.  Anyone who’s contemplating training in a MMA style should take their time to do their research and don’t be afraid to ask questions.  The trainers that enjoy the sport and know what they’re doing will welcome the questions because they have the knowledge to answer and are worth your time.
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IS ALL FAIR IN LOVE & WAR?

5/12/2016

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Is it fair to assume if martial artists spend so much time contemplating war, then love is going to come up eventually. ​

It’s natural to find ourselves attempting to merge our lives with mat time.  Yet, it always seems to become a tedious balancing act when it comes to mat time and matters of the heart. 
My Sifu once advised,
“Date someone in martial arts.”
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I’ve contemplated that statement, wondering if that really is the secret to a successful relationship.  As marital artists our equilibrium is naturally set to balance life and mat, but what happens when a third party becomes involved?   Haven’t we all heard the phrase,  

“You’re going to the dojo again?” ​

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Let's be honest, we've all been there and done that...

Dating someone in martial arts is an alluring concept.  I know multiple married couples that study together and have always viewed them as gold miners—the ones that struck it big.  But the grass is not always greener on the other side. 

I was visiting two of my married Kenpo friends; discussing sparring with them when I found out they never sparred together.  They practice techniques and forms together… but they didn’t spar.  They worried it would cause bad feelings and resentment between the two of them if one was either hit too hard or just right.  

​As a person that loves to spar, the idea of working techniques/forms and eliminating sparring sounded like hell to me; like building a relationship with someone and removing sex from the equation.

This entire time I had been day dreaming what it would be like to date a fellow martial artist—thinking how wonderful it would be to work out together and for someone to finally understand my passion for the art.
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Relationship goals... Or Urban Myth?

In reality it’s a naive concept.


No relationship is perfect and we tend to lose sight of what is important.  Finding a partner that supports us and respects us for who we are.  Every relationship is different and will have different needs.  If someone loves you for who you are (and you are a martial artist) then they should respect and love that part of you because it’s who you are. 

I’m no relationship expert but I am a martial artist and I hope my future partner recognizes from the sparring to Kenpo kisses (bruises) and the long mat hours are not only what I enjoy but they are making me a better person every day.

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    Jesalyn Mae Harper

    Hello my name is Jesalyn.  I'm a divorced single mom and a karate addict...
    I am currently a 1st Brown belt in American Kenpo and a Junior Instructor at Double Dragon Kenpo Karate under JR Diaz, I am part of the Parker/Planas Lineage and study Karbaroan Eskrima with JR Diaz, under Guro Ed Planas

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