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The importance of sparring...

10/20/2016

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​When I was younger and first started training, self-defense techniques and katas were strongly encouraged but not sparring. 

It wasn’t until I was an adult that I started sparring and fell in love with it. Yet, the first couple of months were kind of rough as I started to apply everything I had learned and practiced into a full contact scenario.
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Kenpo Girl sparring for her 3rd Brown belt.

For the longest time, when people saw my bruises from sparring, their expressions would go from concerned to shocked and slightly taken aback. They would ask,

“You let men hit you?”
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 “Only after I hit them first,” I would try to laugh it off but the humor was totally lost to them and I began to realize that not only sparring—but women sparring—was considered so taboo.
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I keep telling people, but no one seems to believe me.

Little do they realize that sparring is equally crucial in Martial Arts as practicing katas and techniques. ​

 When I attended a large tournament this summer, I was super excited to meet other martial artists who were equally as passionate about sparring as I am.  One of these competitors is fellow Kenpo sister, Heather Flessing.

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Heather Flessing, 2nd Degree Black belt in Kenpo and 1st Place winner for
​Women's Black Belt Sparring.

Heather is a 2nd degree black belt in American Kenpo and has been training for 7 years.  When she first started Kenpo, she started sparring right away and explained,

“I began sparring about 2 months after I started Kenpo. Sparring looked exciting, and I wanted to have a practical application for some of the techniques I was learning in Kenpo.”
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That was the same reason I decided to start sparring as an adult.  I had been hesitant at first because I had a lower back injury and was worried after years of rehab that I would injure it again.  When I brought my concerns up with my Sifu he urged that our sparring night wasn’t a full out fight night like you would see in the movies, but that each student practiced control with one another.  
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We fix what we break,
​Mr. H helping Ms. A after accidentally hitting her in the nose.

My Sifu also reminded me,
“Learning karate isn’t just about learning to punch and kick someone, it is learning to take a punch or a kick because in a real fight—they’re going to punch and kick you.”
 
Heather believes sparring is important because it allows you to get your adrenaline going and see how to respond in a “real” attack situation. It goes back to the reason Martial Arts was developed—self-defense.  We have to look realistically in a fight our attackers are not going to just stand there and allow us to break their bones. 
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If only it were that simple.


​She also explained why it is so vital for women in particular to spar,

“I definitely think it’s important for women to learn to spar because when you spar, you learn how to take a hit. Generally, women do not play sports where they make contact with others in a way that might knock the wind out of them or cause them pain. If they do not know how it feels or how to react when someone punches them in the stomach or face, they won’t be as capable of defending themselves in a real-life situation.”
 
Though the probability of a woman being attacked might seem unlikely…  According to the Criminal Victimization Report but the Bureau of Justice Statistics,

The rate of serious violent victimization for females increased from 19.1 per 1,000 persons in 2014 to 21.1 per 1,000 persons in 2015.
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For more scary statistics please visit the Bureau of Justice Statistics website.

It was common when I first started sparring for people to see my fore arms bruised up and automatically assume my boyfriend was beating me.  When I told them I was a Martial Artist and it was from sparring, they concluded I must enjoy fighting and be a violent and hard woman.
  

For a while I became self-conscious of this. I dreaded wearing short sleeved shirts and shorts, exposing my discolored forearms and shins. ​

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Kenpo Girl all bruised up.

Some people were appalled that men at my Dojo were hitting me.  Yet for anyone that has been to my dojo they would know the males do not enjoy hitting women and are very respectful towards their female peers.
I was told once,
“They should hit you—if anything they should hit you harder because a rapist isn’t going to worry about how hard he’s hit you when he’s assaulting you.”

 
I finally began to accept my bruises as badges of honor and began to openly discuss them, calling them my “Kenpo kisses.” 
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Heather’s advice for anyone thinking of learning to spar is,

 “Though sparring might seem scary, it is an important part of self-defense. If your reason for learning martial arts is to be prepared in a self-defense situation, sparring is essential.”
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Heather Flessing competing at the Long Beach International Martial Con 2016

There are many people that enjoy sparring so much they compete at tournaments but we have to remember whether we want to compete or train for survival, sparring is crucial to our Martial Arts Development.  

​Regardless of system, there is always a portion we favor.  Yet we have to remember that each portion or aspect of our system is there to build on each other.  The sparring cannot be without the basics and the basics are just pretty movements until applied.  Anyone can be taught the movements in the air, but learning how to apply it is what distinguishes Martial Artists from Dancers.

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A Tournament's Subconscious Growth

10/13/2016

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​I grew up in a highly competitive family.

 My mother, Heather Greenwood, competed in the very first World Games and the Second World Games and not only won gold in her events in swimming but also beat a Worlds Record. If that isn’t enough I also have family members that have competed at the Olympics and professionally internationally.
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Old picture of my mom, the 1975 Gold metalists tested positive for steroids bumping her up to the Gold Metalist.

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Old news clipping of my mom.

Unfortunately, the genetic competitive drive in my family is almost impossible to shut off. Simple family events where always laced with an antagonistic contest of who can be the best at literally anything. Simple tasks such as eating dinner would quickly become a contest of who can eat the most.  Simple discussions become arguments because no one can afford to be wrong and lose.  

​Family game night was banned with the fear that a simple card game could easily become a reenactment of an old western saloon bar brawl.
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​The short answer I give people when they ask if I compete in tournaments…

The competitiveness of my family destroyed me on competing.

​​ When I went to watch my first tournament, The Long Beach International Martial Con, my intentions were to photograph the event and socialize with the participants and at absolutely no point compete.
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The Dojo I train at primarily focuses on self-defense and Eskrima rather than point sparring and tournament katas. I was excited to attend due to the significance behind it. The Long Beach International Martial Con was originally the Long Beach International Karate Championships and was founded by Grand Master Ed Parker Sr.

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​For Martial Artists living under a rock, Ed Parker was the founder of the American Kenpo System. He created the Long Beach Internationals in 1964. Many famous Martial Artists such as Chuck Norris, Benny “The Jet” Urquidez and “Superfoot” Bill Wallace have established their reputations as world class fighters at the Long Beach Internationals.

​It became an annual event and in 1967 Bruce Lee was introduced for the first time to the Martial Arts community and demonstrated his one-inch punch and two finger push-ups 
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Bruce Lee demonstration at Long Beach Internationals.


​It has been many years since the birth of the Long Beach Internationals and is now known as the Long Beach International Martial Con and run by Steve Cooper.  Yet I still expected to see finely tuned techniques, katas and good sparring. The first day was black belts, and when I looked at the schedule and saw 12 and under black belts, I will admit I was skeptical. 

​In my Lineage we have an age requirement of 16 to be a black belt. I’ve always agreed with this because I have always felt being a black belt is more than just skill. There’s a maturity and intellectual aspect I have always associated with being a black belt.

Maturity and Intellectual are not the first adjectives that come to my mind when talking about 12 year olds… 

​Yet these young girls wanted to speak with me to give advice and encourage other Martial Artists.
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I spoke first to Trinity Harnden, 11 years old and black belt, who had started training when she was 5 years old. She started first competing when she was 6 years old.  She had won 3rd in the Self-Defense Techniques that day. Her advice to student’s thinking of competing was,
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​“They need to follow their heart. Breathe in and out (during competition) and you’ll be fine.”
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Trinity Harnden executing her self defense technique.

​Pretty mature and intellectual for an 11 year old.


Another 11 year old Black Belt I spoke with was Briannah McGee. She won 1st in Weapons in the 12 and under age group. She started training with the Bo Staff around age 5 or 6 and has been competing from a young age,

“You need to just pretend its practice and breathe.”
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Winners of the American Kenpo Self Defense 12 & Under Black belt.
(left) Second Place Mikaela Mata Morose, (center) First Place Briannah McGee, (right) Third Place Trinity Harnden.

​This might sound like primitive advice for a seasoned martial artist, but for some students they should consider taking a leaf from these young girl’s books.
I watched many competitors shine in their victory I also saw many drowning in their loss.  It was in the moment of water bottles flying and fists colliding with tables and doors, that I realized competitors were forgetting the true benefits and unconscious purpose of tournaments.
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Tournaments aren’t just about winning trophies or plaques. Everyone has trophies, especially from tournaments that have been around as long as the Long Beach Internationals. My friend Skye Byerly a 15 year old Black belt in Shotokan and Taekwondo was competing at the Long Beach Internationals for the first time and said,

​“It’s my first time here (Long Beach Internationals) but I’m making friends from all over and networking.”
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Skye Byerly competing with her Bo Staffs

​It’s about the experience. 

It’s having the opportunity to spar someone you’ve never sparred before. It’s the opportunity of watching a Bo Staff twirl you never would have thought of. It’s the experience of meeting new people to share these experiences and your growth with.
I had the privilege of not just meeting these young black belts but getting to meet Bob White, 9th Degree Black belt, historical Tournament Champion and Hall of Famer.
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Kenpo Girl with Bob & Barbara White

Everyone student who shows up and gets on the mat at these tournaments is already winners.

Everyone who shows up and gets on the mat at these tournaments is already winners.  There are so many amazing fighters and movers that struggle finding the self-confidence to compete. Finding your confidence and self-reassurance is part of the battle not just for competing but in daily life. Some of the advice Skye gave as a competitor was,
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​“Don’t be afraid of people who have been competing for a while.”

We have to remember our ultimate goal is to be better than we were the day before. 

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    Jesalyn Mae Harper

    Hello my name is Jesalyn.  I'm a divorced single mom and a karate addict...
    I am currently a 1st Brown belt in American Kenpo and a Junior Instructor at Double Dragon Kenpo Karate under JR Diaz, I am part of the Parker/Planas Lineage and study Karbaroan Eskrima with JR Diaz, under Guro Ed Planas

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